Introduction
The marriage, once seen as the strongest base of stability, is now proving brittle. Astrological influences and changing dynamics lead to shorter marriages, often ending in bitter accusations and legal battles.
What is it that leads to marital disintegration from within? It began with love and commitment; how was it so easily thrown away? Greatly, if one were to consider societal, economic, or psychological factors, some deeper insight would be afforded by astrology.
Karmas, impact of the planets, and evolution of individual consciousness can be unmeritedly counted among the factors determining the course of a marriage and their coupling, rather than just compatibility. “This article takes a rather gnostic turn, citing the astrological reasons behind hasty divorces and most probably, the first blame game of human beings, along with psychology and socio-economics, for healthy understanding.”
1. The Changing Astrological Nature of Marriage: A Shift in Expectations and Reality
a) Modern Expectations vs. Traditional Realities
Previously, marriage entailed security, duty, and family bonding. Anything else secondary-for to be compatible, status and family, culture, and social responsibilities Astrological mattered.
Today, marriage is seen as something that should bestow personal happiness, emotions, and passion for eternity. People expect:
- Love without strings attached and without much work.
- Emotional and sexual compatibility without too much personal understanding.
- Always have fun and adventure, not be your lifelong buddy.
When these expectations collide with reality-such as financial struggles, differing lifestyles, and emotional baggage-many couples are disappointed and disillusioned.
b) The Role of Individualism in Marital Breakdown
The society has moved toward personal freedom, self-expression, and independence, and the effects of these values are:
- People are less willing to compromise.
- Interpersonal emotional toughness has weakened.
- Patience for working through difficulties has decreased.
Many couples nowadays either end their marriages or believe the next one will be better, rather than their own transitions. It’s among the many areas where astrology shows the deeper truths that running doesn’t solve anything, as the problems arise because they are karmic in nature, being part of one’s own karmic patterns.
2. The Astrological Viewpoint: Why Marriages Break Early
a) The 7th House and Its Afflictions: The Foundation of Marital Problems
The 7th house in the birth chart represents marriage, partnerships, and commitment. When troubled, it causes:
- Misunderstandings and communication gaps.
- Ego clashes and dominance issues.
- Attraction turning into repulsion over time.
🔹 The major astrological afflictions that are set for early divorce are as follows:
- Mars in the 7th House (Manglik Dosha) → Fights with aggression; ego battles.
- Rahu-Ketu Axis in the 7th House → Breakups are sudden; illusions, deceptions.
- Saturn in the 7th House → Coldness, emotional detachment; satisfaction gets delayed.
- Sun in the 7th House → Power struggles, dominance, and control issues.
Example: If a person has Rahu in the 7th house, they may romanticize marriage unrealistically and then feel trapped when the relationship becomes routine.
b) Venus Afflictions: Love Turning into Discontent
Venus is the planet of love, attraction, and romance. When Venus is afflicted, relationships suffer from:
- Lack of emotional connection.
- Sexual incompatibility.
- Infidelity or loss of interest.
🔹 Common Venus afflictions leading to marital breakdown:
- Venus with Rahu → Extramarital affairs, unrealistic desires.
- Venus with Saturn → Cold, duty-bound relationships with no passion.
- Venus debilitated in Virgo → Over-criticism, dissatisfaction, and emotional distance.
Example: A person with Venus and Saturn together may find their marriage lacking warmth and excitement, making them feel trapped in a lifeless relationship.
c) Dasha Periods and Sudden Breakups
The fate of even the most successful alliances often hang in balance during difficult planetary Dashas. Some of these Dashas lead to such severe upheavals in one’s relationship that it brings a person to the very edge of manic depression.
🔹Dashas coming significantly often include:
- Saturn-Mars Dasha: Frequent fights, cold detachment, and ego clashes.
- Rahu-Venus Dasha: It is characterized by Infidelity, attraction outside marriage, and un-satisfaction.
- Ketu-Moon Dasha: It is characterized by Emotional imbalance, misunderstanding, and seclusion.
Example: After entering into Rahu-Venus Dasha just after marriage, one begins feeling emotionally disconnected and starts seeking thrill elsewhere.
3. Why Do Couples Blame Each Other? The Role of Mercury, Rahu, and Mars
a) Mercury’s Influence on Communication and Accusations
Communication and logic are under the dimensions of Mercury. Afflictions in Mercury may lead to:
- Petty arguments and misunderstandings.
- False accusations and gossip.
- Court cases and character assassination.
🔹 Notable afflictions of Mercury that can escalate to blame games:
- Mercury with Rahu → Twisted words, deceit, lying.
- Mercury with Mars → Cruel speech, rash accusations.
- Mercury in debilitation in Pisces → Emotional confusion, misunderstanding.
b) Rahu’s Role in False Allegations and Public Shaming
Rahu is thought to symbolize deception and illusions. Contraryly, Rahu often creates:
- False accusations against someone in court.
- Conflicts in social media and bringing shame to the other person publicly.
- Unrealistic expectations that eventually end up creating resentment.
🔹Key positions that magnify this blame game:
- Rahu in the 7th house: spouse may be manipulative or does injustice.
- Rahu with Mercury: lies, twisting facts, misguiding narratives.
- Rahu with Venus: affairs leading to accusations of betrayal.
Example: If Rahu is in the 7th house, a person might exaggerate their spouse’s flaws and create dramatic conflicts.
c) Mars and Domestic Conflicts
Mars signifies resentment, domination, and vengeance. In case of marriage disputes, Mars creates:
- Heavy-duty fights and violent acts at home.
- Legally abusing one another for money or child custody.
- Getting back at the other party after separation.
🔹 Mars-related causes in a divorce:
- Mars-Rahu or Ketu conjunction: Unbearable anger and extreme reactions arise.
- Mars in the 2nd House: Harsh words and abuse.
- Mars in the 7th House: Power struggle and aggression.
4. Remedies for Strengthening Marriage and Preventing Divorce
However, there exists a solution to the challenges brought about by the planets in one’s life concerning their relationships.
🔹 Strengthen Venus and the 7th House:
- Worship Goddess Lakshmi and Lord Shiva for marital harmony.
- Wear a diamond or white sapphire (if astrologically suitable).
- Recite “Om Shukraya Namah” daily for Venus’ positive influence.
🔹 Reduce Rahu’s negative influence.
- Chant “Om Rahave Namah” to reduce deception and illusions.
- Manipulation and deception in relationship must be avoided.
- Feed crows and give to the poor, such as donating to those not receiving alms.
🔹 Mars Aggression:
- Chant Hanuman Chalisa to reduce anger and ego clashes.
- Engage in meditation and yoga to control impulsiveness.
Conclusion
An early breakup is indeed not just a social issue but karmically and astrological perceived from Cosmic affliction, psychological factors, and cultural shifts of varying magnitudes.
Marriage has to do with the understanding of energy dynamics, emotional resilience, and karmic lessons. Anyone aware of this truth is able to build strong and long-lasting relationships.
